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We can say by observing the heart beat pulse rate, if there are no ups and downs the person is said to be dead, similarly the understanding and love can be known from their convincing skills in troubles. Every couple should love each other, at the same time they should express what they are actually feeling.

The thing here I want to put forward is: having differences in family is not a problem, but hiding the best solutions and suggestions is really a sin. Strong relationship doesn’t mean silence, but it is certainly the commendable and effective communication.

The famous author Nicholas Sparks in his Safe Haven, said “Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”

His statement and its value is a pathfinder for many couples of this age, to have longevity in the relationship with love, the married couple should participate in arguments and discussions inside the house (not in public) and should strive to obtain a viable solution for the problems and suggestions for better execution of plans.

Every argument should focus on future of children and relationship, feeling every bitter taste as severe problem leads to damage in the system. The mastery of understanding comes from turning the contradictions and differences to a prospective step and platform for future of the family. The principle is applicable to friendship, love, and even for business firms. Opening up with perfect outcome is always accepted by others.

-Kannamsai